Life is a process to learn and forget

Someday we may find that we have grown up and could not tear, cry, or yell like a child any more. Just a simple recall, we will find:

There is always something in our life we have to forget without a word; it is enough and valuable if we learn something from the process and the experience.

There is also the moment in our life we have to endure some unhappiness and frustration silently; it will enrich our life after we get over it.

Have a hobby

It is better to know music or play an instrument, which will help to clean our mind and heart, enhance our memory and imagination, most of time, bring us the inspiration, passion, or unexpected serenity.

We can have other hobbies such as drawing, dancing, collecting, outdoor activities, sports, which help us make close friends, share similar values, and add color to our daily life.

To have a hobby, it will help to balance our life from material and spiritual world.

Wise New Sayings

1. With good habits, it is hard to fail
2. At any time, studying is possible
3. what a person can ultimately posses is only his/her body

Avoid two types of unhappiness

In this world, we might want to avoid two types of unhappiness: one is from unachievable target; the other is from devotion.

For the former, we should regard it as gambling: be happy if we win; forget it if we lose; after all we still have the resources (our mind, knowledge, skills, experience etc) and opportunities to restart.

For the latter, it will be the worst situation to get rid of in the world. If something like that still exists in our heart, it must be removed completely without any leftover like mopping out the dust.

Plant kindness

Recently there is a lot of news about people who was killed. I was shocked about this.

Theoretically, there should be less and less evil phenomenon happened these days because this society has entered the most civilized era. With the modern technology, people expand their capability greatly. Even in developing countries, people are living a better life. However, it is hard to understand that human seems to become greedier, which results in too much unfair. Therefore, at the corner of somewhere in the world, the similar tragedy happens almost every day. It feels like this world doesn’t become safer, more peaceful, and more friendly, rather than be full of disappoint, fear, hatred, horror, and loss of hope…

So, I hope everyone can try the best to let the people around who are not as good as us feel the sunshine and the beauty of the world. Let us try our best to plant kindness, which make the world blossoming due to the human nature.

Accumulate friendship

Lifetime is short but is also long. I wish everything through a life went smoothly. Unfortunately, life is always full of unanticipated difficulties. Sometimes, it is hard to seek helps and support from our family at that moment but it is often solved with the help of our friends. So far every steps I moved forward, there are always friends accompanying me to overcome the difficulties I have confronted. Therefore, my heart has been full of apreciation.

Through our lifetime. there is no doubt that we need close connections, cares, and concerns from our family and relatives. But we also need friendships, which can not be substituted by other relationships.

From my experience, a reliable friendship is the warmest and coziest coat for our whole life, which can only builds up through our personal quality and positive attitude towards others.

Life is fair: today we plant friendship seeds here;tomorrow we may harvest somewhere.

If we already have a lot, it is never too much and we need to cherish and maintain it; If we do not have any, it is never too late to build and accumulate it.

Today, have you blogged?

Blog is a piece of blank paper, with it you can write or draw whatever you want.
Blog is a stage, where you can play,sing, cry, laugh, or even yell.
Blog is a interface, where you can communicate with others around the earth.
Blog is a virtual world, where you can become a figure you can not to be in a real world.
Blog is a market, where you can "sell' your real products, services, ideas, and spiritual objects.
Blog is also a good tool, through it you can realize a lot of dreams...

So, do you have a blog?
Today, have you blogged?